What Have I Been Up To Lately?

I just went on vacation and barely had internet access, so I apologize for the lack of updates. What have all of you guys been up to? Had any luck with the ladies?

When I was away, I honestly stayed low key when it came to the older women…women in general as well. As those of you who constantly approach and just chat with females out there, constantly doing it can get rather draining. Sometimes you just need a break.

Oh…you thought I would only be giving you advice on how to get older women? Well, this is part of it. Sometimes you just need a break from it all to recharge your batteries. Work was getting stressful for me, so I pretty much needed a getaway.

Think of getting women like lifting weights. Yes, you need to constantly workout, but you won’t really see muscle growth unless you take rest days. That’s just my philosophy on things. If you’re not approach, of course, you won’t see results as well. It’s just that you need time to relax and reflect.

And who knows? Sometimes when you’re not even in the “I want to approach every girl in this bar” mode, you might actually see success as you’re simply out with your buddies to have a good time.

Give Them What They REALLY Want, Not What They SAY They Want

Older women and females in general always say things like, “Oh, I want a nice guy who can really provide and take care of me.” That’s generally because of movies and other sources of media that influence women to say these things. They think because Ryan Gosling did the things he did and said the things he said in The Notebook that the men they desire do the same things as well.

That’s obviously far from the truth.

Try these things out for yourself. I’ve done it, playing the “dream guy” role, wining and dining girls like it were my job. Did it get me anywhere? Nope, barely anywhere.

That’s why I’m a firm believer in just being a confident male. You don’t need to be rich or good looking to get girls. Especially older women. They’ve experienced it all when they were younger. These guys tried providing these kinds of things for them, only for the relationships to fall flat.

I’m not saying that you should treat women like garbage and act like a jerk all the time. It’s okay to poke fun at girls and tease them. However, what I’m saying is that you should just lead. Be confident in your actions and in the the things you say. Rather than constantly ask your girl what to do on your date, lead the way. Suggest things to do.

For example:

Instead of…

“So what do you want to do for dinner?”

Say something like…

“How about this awesome restaurant that just opened downtown? What do you think?”

It’s the little things like that that can really make a difference in your relationship. Women like to be led. Act like a man, be confident, and you will see much better results with women, especially older women who’ve been through all the lame excuses of men out there.

-Adam

Adam’s Your Man on Dating Older Women and Advice

What’s good! This is Adam, and welcome to my Dating older Women blog. I’m gonna be give you guys some tips on finding success with dating older women. Whether you just want to have some fun or you’re really looking for a serious relationship with someone older, I’ve got you covered.

Each week, I’ll be posting something new. This can be anywhere from general dating advice or maybe even some challenges so I can get you chumps to actually take some action. For real…being a keyboard jockey will not get you anywhere. You need to approach, approach, APPROACH!

Or if you want to do the whole online dating thing, that’s cool too. In that case, you need to message these older women and translate your game into text form.

However you plan to do it, I know everyone has it in them. With a little practice and some experience, you’ll be able to get dates easily – older women or whoever you desire!

Keep checking back for blog entries. Peaceee. Adam.